Telling Your Partner About Your Kink: A Four Step Guide
Understanding your kink is the first step when incorporating it into your relationship. Sexuality is wild. We can get trapped into asking...
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Matthew Lachman
- Jan 19
- 5 min
Monogamy vs Polyamory: What is Right for Me?
Relationships are not as straightforward as they once appeared to be. From traditional monogamy to various forms of polyamory, our society i
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Matthew Lachman
- Dec 12, 2022
- 6 min
10 Things People (Still!) Don’t Get About Consensual Non-Monogamy.
2022 has been a year. The Russian invasion of Ukraine was awful. The overturning of Roe v Wade was unthinkable. The sex negative response...
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Matthew Lachman
- Mar 7, 2022
- 4 min
Five Ways to Be More Sex Positive
Our world is filled with so much shame around human sexuality. Here are five ways to break free from it. The number one topic I deal with...
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Matthew Lachman
- Sep 23, 2021
- 7 min
Busting 10 Myths about Intimacy and Relationships
From orgasms to theories of love, there are so many myths and misconceptions in this world around intimacy and relationships. Below are...
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Matthew Lachman
- Jun 9, 2021
- 4 min
Horror and Sex: Why You Should Incorporate Scary Movies into Your Sex Life!
As a lifelong fan of horror movies, I thought I would spend some time talking about the connection between the genre and intimacy. First,...
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Matthew Lachman
- Apr 7, 2021
- 5 min
How to Avoid Toxic Monogamy
Monogamy works, but our society sets us up for failure. When we look at the origins of monogamy, it paints a completely different picture...
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Matthew Lachman
- Mar 19, 2021
- 5 min
When to Enlist a Sex Therapist
Netflix's show Sex Education has provided a phenomenal representation of sex therapy and shined a light on the world of intimacy and...
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Matthew Lachman
- Mar 12, 2021
- 3 min
How to Survive a Long-Distance Relationship
As someone who has been in two long-distance relationships (LDR), I know firsthand how difficult they can be! Describing them as “tough”...
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Matthew Lachman
- Mar 4, 2021
- 3 min
Mastering the Art of Sexting
I was recently talking with a friend of mine and I was asking her if she “sexts” with her partner. “Sexting,” or texting sexually...
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Matthew Lachman
- Feb 3, 2021
- 3 min
Snapshot: The Sexuality War Between Men and Women
The battle between individuals who identify as men and women have been raging for years. But why is this happening and how can we change it?
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Matthew Lachman
- Nov 5, 2020
- 7 min
Get Ready to Fight! Seasonal Affective Disorder and How to Maintain Desire during COVID-19
Winter has always been one of my favorite seasons. Growing up in the Midwest and being directly on a lake, Cleveland is consistently...
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Matthew Lachman
- Oct 20, 2020
- 5 min
Boundaries and Consent: Why We Need Continuous Reminders of Both
2020 has been a strange year. With a global pandemic, several prolific deaths, and spikes in mental health concerns, it is easy to push...
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Matthew Lachman
- Mar 24, 2020
- 8 min
Sex, Stress, and COVID-19
Some tips and strategies to incorporate as we continue to navigate the Coronavirus.
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Matthew Lachman
- Feb 20, 2020
- 7 min
Demystifying Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM)
Consensual Non-Monogamy is becoming more prevalent in our world today, and for good reason!
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Matthew Lachman
- Jan 28, 2020
- 5 min
Relationships don’t require sacrifice, they require stretching.
We tell ourselves that we need to "sacrifice" to make our relationships work. I don't think that is the case.
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